It so often happens that we are sitting somewhere in a café or bar and a man passes by who just seems to be the right guy for you. But we often lose on to him because of our inability to have their attention directed towards us. We always get the attention, but not from the guy we want it from. And if it looks like we aren’t going to get the attention, then we should do something that will get us what we want- his attention.
5 of the best tried and tested the way that will help you get the attention of that special guy are listed below. Make sure you read them all with all the concentration you have got.
- Keep looking at him: –
Once you see the guy you are interested in, keep staring at him as long as it takes to get him to see you staring at him. This will make him understand that you are interested in him. Keep exchanging glances now and then to keep him engaged, but make sure you don’t overdo it as that may seem more like a stalking.
- Keep playing with yourself: –
One of the best ways to let someone know that you are interested in them is to play with yourself. Start playing with the pen, tangle your hair in your finger, pretend to think something, show him your neck by rubbing it, pretending to be exhausted, tilt yourself back so that your cleavage is visible.
- Act bored: –
If the guy is interested in you as well, then he will try to come and talk to you if he has the balls, but for that, he must sense that you are not busy with something. Do something that will show that you are sitting idle. Yawn occasionally, tap your fingers on your thighs or on the table, keep checking the mobile, play with anything that you can find nearby. It will help the guy understand that you are waiting for something and it can possibly be him trying something on you.
- Replicate his behavior and actions: –
It is important to have some connection before the actual talking starts. For example, if you see him sipping water, then you sip water too from your glass, if you see him seeing the menu for ordering something, pretend to look in the menu as well. If he is loosening his tie or shuffling his collar because of the heat, you can fan yourself as well with your hands as well to let him know that you feel the heat too. This will show him that there is a connection between you two and you will get a thing to talk about as well.
- Start the talking, if needed: –
It may very well be the case that your guy doesn’t have the guts or the balls to come to you and start talking with you, but that’s too small a thing to let a guy of the hand. Do something that will allow you to talk to him like if he is sitting at the counter, you can go there and ask him to pass on something or take his suggestion about what to order. Graze his arm while going towards the washroom and then politely apologize to them with a sweet smile.
These are just some of the few ways that can help you in getting the thing started with the guy you are interested in. There are more than one knows to get things started. The basis of this article is to let everyone have some tricks up their sleeves in case of an emergency that is if a guy appears out of nowhere who is exceedingly attractive and matches your description of the perfect man perfectly.
Apart from all this, the most basic thing that everyone tends to ignore is that it is important for you to look confident. Don’t give out the impression that you are head over heels for him as it may make him take things for granted. Make sure that you look confident in every move you make and never ever give out the vibes that he is your weakness.
There are many books out there on the market as well that discusses these matters in detail. You can read them as well to get a better idea about how to deal with these issues so that you can get whatever you want with ease.