Most of the men around the world dream about dating the girl they have admired for years. However, dreaming alone is not enough to win over her heart and make her yours. Although It might not be easy to get your dream girl to date you, it is not impossible. It’s time to stop dreaming and start doing. Let us help with some ways that can help you to win over your girl’s heart.
7 Secrets to Win Over Your Dream Girl:
- Be a Gentleman: Do not act cocky and don’t try to pressure her to go out with you. Let her know your interest in her and be patient. Try to introduce yourself and have a simple conversation to allow her to get to know you better. Being a gentleman never hurts. Pull open doors for her and walk next to the road while taking a stroll with her.
- Compliment Her: Girls love compliments. Be sincere. Tell her she looks beautiful. Remind her of the last time you saw her and how you were left awestruck.
- Be the One to Take the Initiative: Invite her to parties, concerts or even nights out with your friends. Give her the time to get to know you well. Send her early morning texts; let her know you care about her.
- Question her Heart out: Whenever she wants to have a conversation with you, listen to her attentively and ask her more about it. Remember “How?”, “When?” and “Where?”. She will know that you are really interested in getting involved in her life. Show her you care and try to listen well.
- Set up Your First Date near her home: Whenever she agrees to a meeting alone somewhere, be sure to make her feel comfortable and confident. Set up the meeting near her house and ask to walk her home when she leaves. That walk can be really special and may turn out to be a game changer.
- Pay attention & get her a special gift: Pay attention whenever she speaks and note her like and dislikes. Maybe you can buy her that special chocolate cake that she mentioned or you can even buy both of you tickets to a concert for a band she mentioned she likes. If she mentions a favorite flower, buy a small bouquet of them for her. If she has a favorite color, buy her a nice card in that color.
- Be Protective & Romantic: Walk her to her car. Go with her if she is going somewhere alone, but remember not to be overprotective and clingy. Be protective in a romantic way. Also, plan things out beforehand; make your every “first” thing memorable and special. Do not let your first touch or first kiss be random.
Some of the DO and DON’T’s:
- DON’T try to open your first conversation with a flirty or an obviously cheesy line. Do not comment on any of her body parts or clothes.
- DON’T Do not try to share your personal issues with her during your first conversation. Never ever try to share your sex life or any other sexual matters.
- DON’T try to be physical. A simple shake of the hand is convenient enough for the first date. Do not try to be overly touchy or handsy during a conversation. You will make yourself appear to be a creep.
- DO be kind. Everyone loves to be treated nicely. You may offer to get her a coffee if you meet her in a café. Push open the door for her when you leave. Offering a friendly smile might be one of the best gestures. A simple smile can make your girl smile back and create a bond between you.
- DO ask her relevant questions. Whenever she is talking while having a conversation with you, ask her relevant leading questions. This will make her realize your interest in her. Make her feel comfortable around you.
- DO be funny. Do not act too serious in front of her. Be polite and funny. Share stories with her about some light, funny incidents with your friends. Be spontaneous and be yourself.
Conclusion: Following the aforementioned steps can actually make it easier for you to win over the girl of your dreams. Everyone deserves to be with that special someone and spend his life with her. Although it might not be that easy for everyone, following the above-mentioned tips and being persistent will more easily win over your girl.