There is no 100 percent guarantee that she will come back as our very own existence is not something that is definite. As a relationship is a two way process, it is ultimately her decision that counts now since you already made yours.
So if you know that getting her is worth something to do for, follow the few hacks given below in order to trigger the relationship back to life.
# 1: Rectify
Rectifying the mistakes is a key factor. I am sure you will not only find fault in her behavior in the tarnished relationship, but there might be factors which you have contributed as well. It may be things that you never imagined of, it might be calling her 24×7 and demanding that she does not do the same. If she wants to go somewhere, let her do it alone if she wishes so or if she wants to go with her friends let her. Do not love her overly as she would feel suffocated and might even get the vibe that you do not trust her. Let her be herself for some time and relax. Think what went wrong. She might have left some hints in the past which you might have not given heed to.
# 2: Space
Give her some time and space of her own at least a month if necessary. Women are emotionally high in volatile and you probably understood that by now so, let her calm down till she starts missing you and this will eventually make her remember her “moments” with you.
# 3: Status
A job and your status go hand in hand and trust me, a woman will only consider a man who is independent and stand on both his feet (that is, not depending on his parent, of course!) She will not be willing to move out with a homeless guy who does not have a secure job and a monthly salary. She might as well be hit by a bus! If this is what a woman feels like think what would be going through her head when she hears about “long – term commitment” and starting a new family.
# 4: Hygiene
No women like bad breaths or bad body odors. So brush your teeth twice or use a mouthwash, seriously! And apply a good cologne, it may do wonders, believe me! She may even be drawn closer to you.
# 5: Perspective
Changing your perspective can improve your chances of getting her back. Leave your male ego aside for some time and try thinking what she wants, what she feels like. It is not so difficult to put yourself in her shoes try doing it, try respecting her views and give her some consideration.
# 6: Get back on track
You need to equip yourself too. Go to the gym, the beach, have some fun playing sports, do something productive and make yourself feel useful and worthy of. This will help channelize your thought process well. Enjoy who you once were before the break-up. Laugh and smile.
# 7: Get together
Contact her after sometime and tell her that you want to meet up with her. Make sure to give a feeling that it is just a simple meet up of friends and nothing else. Have a cup of tea together. There might be tension at the beginning but you have to be cool enough to break it with your smile. Do not bring up the past, but just talk about something casual. It may help her to see the man whom she fell head over heels for and she might start to get attached to you again. Best friends are best lovers they say so, be her bestie first.
# 8: Get serious
After several meet ups, open up to her and admit that you want her in your life for real. As she was once scarred, make her believe that the choice that she is going to make is not going to be a mistake. Show that you are a changed person and is willing to adapt as the situation requires. Make her understand that you will do whatever it takes to win her and make the relationship work out no matter what the challenges they face in the future. Be sincere when you speak, speak your heart out, but be careful to be calm and maintain the eye contact.
Conclusion
After winning her back, the toughest part is going to be maintaining and developing the relationship. You do not want to repeat the whole drama again, do you? So, whatever you say, be careful. Be wise enough to think first.
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It is still good to see that in this day and age someone still believes in love and its powers. I mean, these days when someone leaves may it be your ex well the sea is vast argument is in effect. However, if you really love someone you will do everything to win your ex back.
Winning your “EX BACK” is not easy. Many things are in play here specially if the break up is ugly. Time can help heal those by that time you both might have moved on which happens a lot. Still these hax are very enjoyable to read.
Well I can pretty much relate to the giving of space. It is a must to every break up although it is easier said than done. For one the human emotion can be very volatile. However if the two parties are mature and knows their priorities and no bad blood then it is and can be easier. You can even win your ex back with texts. All it takes is timing and a bit of luck.
Very nice article and very unique too. If most advice would center around how to move on this is different and I like that. How to make your ex want you back? There is no concrete solutions for one each relationship is and will always be different. Some get chances others do not.
I had so many exes not bragging he he Some break ups I had were peaceful, chaotic and even the ok cold shoulder type. So believe it or not I can relate to this . I am aware that mostly second chances can happen to past lovers it happened to me once.
With that said, what are signs your ex wants you back? Well for one if he or she does not change their treatment of you after the break up. It is not full proof or a guarantee but at least it will make the doors open for both of you. Specially if both parties are single.
I wish I could have read this 8 hacks or as I call it Win your ex back now article but I did not and I have a new lady now. However, I can suggest this to my pals who are in the same predicament as I was before.
For me the best way to remotely win your ex back now is to remain friends. Cliche as that sounds it works in most cases if the foundation is strong and both parties can look past the break up.
One question that I ask is and I am sure everyone else Do you really wanna have someone back? What if its too late? What if that person only hurts you? So many questions that can be brought up with this topic I know most if not all particularly if the break up is fresh would say yes!!! In that case , I would like to ask them how do you define the signs that your ex wants you back? Texting? communication? Perhaps but perhaps the answer would be LOVE its the ultimate hack. All these tricks all boils down to this otherwise 8 9 or 10 tips wont matter.
With all of these tips how come nobody is asking about signs your ex wants you back perhaps, That to me is more interesting but come to think of I agree with the author disclaimer. These tips are not guarantee.
Me and my boyfriend called it quits a while back. It is a long shot but I will try this I hope this works. Thanks for these tips.
Getting a past lover back is not an easy task. So many variables are in play here as stated above and each step needs work. Rectify for example they say one can forgive but never forget. In most cases breakups are ugly even fatal so sometimes it is worth it sometimes just move on.
I know the title is getting someone back but not everyone is given that chance. FATE whether you believe it or not is hard to predict. Sometimes the one you thought that is for you is not really meant for you. In my opinion everything happens for a reason and perhaps in breakups that applies too. Although its a hard one to accept.