There is no 100 percent guarantee that she will come back as our very own existence is not something that is definite. As a relationship is a two way process, it is ultimately her decision that counts now since you already made yours.
So if you know that getting her is worth something to do for, follow the few hacks given below in order to trigger the relationship back to life.
# 1: Rectify
Rectifying the mistakes is a key factor. I am sure you will not only find fault in her behavior in the tarnished relationship, but there might be factors which you have contributed as well. It may be things that you never imagined of, it might be calling her 24×7 and demanding that she does not do the same. If she wants to go somewhere, let her do it alone if she wishes so or if she wants to go with her friends let her. Do not love her overly as she would feel suffocated and might even get the vibe that you do not trust her. Let her be herself for some time and relax. Think what went wrong. She might have left some hints in the past which you might have not given heed to.
# 2: Space
Give her some time and space of her own at least a month if necessary. Women are emotionally high in volatile and you probably understood that by now so, let her calm down till she starts missing you and this will eventually make her remember her “moments” with you.
# 3: Status
A job and your status go hand in hand and trust me, a woman will only consider a man who is independent and stand on both his feet (that is, not depending on his parent, of course!) She will not be willing to move out with a homeless guy who does not have a secure job and a monthly salary. She might as well be hit by a bus! If this is what a woman feels like think what would be going through her head when she hears about “long – term commitment” and starting a new family.
# 4: Hygiene
No women like bad breaths or bad body odors. So brush your teeth twice or use a mouthwash, seriously! And apply a good cologne, it may do wonders, believe me! She may even be drawn closer to you.
# 5: Perspective
Changing your perspective can improve your chances of getting her back. Leave your male ego aside for some time and try thinking what she wants, what she feels like. It is not so difficult to put yourself in her shoes try doing it, try respecting her views and give her some consideration.
# 6: Get back on track
You need to equip yourself too. Go to the gym, the beach, have some fun playing sports, do something productive and make yourself feel useful and worthy of. This will help channelize your thought process well. Enjoy who you once were before the break-up. Laugh and smile.
# 7: Get together
Contact her after sometime and tell her that you want to meet up with her. Make sure to give a feeling that it is just a simple meet up of friends and nothing else. Have a cup of tea together. There might be tension at the beginning but you have to be cool enough to break it with your smile. Do not bring up the past, but just talk about something casual. It may help her to see the man whom she fell head over heels for and she might start to get attached to you again. Best friends are best lovers they say so, be her bestie first.
# 8: Get serious
After several meet ups, open up to her and admit that you want her in your life for real. As she was once scarred, make her believe that the choice that she is going to make is not going to be a mistake. Show that you are a changed person and is willing to adapt as the situation requires. Make her understand that you will do whatever it takes to win her and make the relationship work out no matter what the challenges they face in the future. Be sincere when you speak, speak your heart out, but be careful to be calm and maintain the eye contact.
After winning her back, the toughest part is going to be maintaining and developing the relationship. You do not want to repeat the whole drama again, do you? So, whatever you say, be careful. Be wise enough to think first.
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