You met him a few weeks ago, and everything is going on smoothly. However, just like your previous relationships, you’re afraid it is not going to last for long. So, what would make a man that looked so happy leave you? This is a mystery to most women, but it all goes down to understanding men and how they think. Meeting your dream man and then having him walk away when everything seems OK is one of the worst moments for women. When women fall in love, it is quite different as compared to men who hardly show their true feelings.
In this post, I’m going to share with you six reasons why men walk out of the relationship. You definitely want to read this if you’ve found your dream man and wanted to settle. Unlike you women, men can’t handle intense emotions thrown at them. Most would rather walk away than imagine copying up with the emotions. Here are some strange reasons that you might find hard to comprehend but ones that can help you.
1. They were in just for sex
Yeah, as much as it sounds awkward, this is one of the biggest reasons why men date. They are in to have some good time and probably get the most precious part of you. What motivates the guy you’re in a relationship with right now? Has he suddenly changed after having sex with you? I know you would rather call it making love but sex and making love is all the same for men. It is mostly women who get emotional when it comes to sex and end calling it love.
If your guy is suddenly not appreciating you the same way he used to do, then you need to think twice. Was he in for the sake of sex or just because he loved you?
2. You no longer attractive in his eyes
I know this sounds crazy but trust me guys have a keen eye for beautiful ladies. Did you stop taking care of your body and now you look shabbily? One common mistake women make is that they will always look beautiful and attractive to their husbands as long they are married. You will not have the same physical attributes you had at 20 when you hit 30 years. In is nature, his excitement and interest in your beauty would change with time.
This starts with a bulging tummy to sagging boobs. Well, it might be because of the babies you’ve heard together but trust me, even his sex drive will fade over time. This is the main reason women are advised to marry men that are a bit older than then. You have to know this as a woman and take care of your body in the best way possible.
3. He has outgrown the relationship
Unlike women, men treat marriages and relationships like a phenomenal. This is what most relationship mentors call a toy-wary mentality where men are worn out after a certain period. While it is common for men to enjoy the cuddling and warmth of the women, such feelings tend to reach a psychological summer. It is like giving a kid the same toy to play with for the rest of their childhood. Most men would rather stay late and have fun in the club with their male friends and other women before coming home late.
4. You’re too nagging and nosey
If you’ve found yourself setting rules about using each other’s phones, then you probably need to think twice as men want privacy. Men hate nagging women who always want to know every bit of something even where there is nothing to tell. Do you complain about every little thing? This makes men miserable enough to spend more of the times in the bar or at work. Don’t drag your man into circles of the relationship of your friends. Give him his space, and he will come to you.
5. They are probably fed up of you withdrawing from your obligations
He probably helped do the dishes or cook, and now you’ve made him the main cook in the house. Well, while there is nothing wrong with men helping their women with house chores, most women tend to take it for granted and withdraw more from their obligations. Know your basic marital obligations and stick to them. Most women will not talk about it but rather choose to walk out of the relationship leaving you wondering what happened.
The Devotion System